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infatuation of puppy love
INFATUATION OR PUPPY LOVE
In love, experience is delighted at its peak. We are emotionally obsessed with each other. We go to sleep thinking of one another. When we get up and rise, that person is the first thought on our minds. We long to be together, romantic, like the one in the novels. When I read the “Mills and Boons” or romantic novels, we pictured that we were like Cinderella waiting for the Prince to save and lift us to the kingdom. Spending time together is like playing in the cloudy sky of heaven. This is it! When we hold hands, our blood seems tingling, and an electrifying feeling flows together even when he smokes like a chimney! Oh, my jolly! I was in love with a man I hardly knew who was a heavy smoker, a hefty drinker, and many other vices.
He just visited me when he came from college in the other region. I hardly know him. But since he was the first time who courted me but vaguely said, I love you! It was the first time I had the experience of holding hands together.
Therefore, I jumped to the conclusion that this is the man. It was so romantic that I didn’t know how to act. Since then, this man has had so many friends visiting me. I couldn’t understand or pinpoint who the one who wanted me was. Sometimes, there are more than three, at least. Since he’s studying a nautical course in other cities, he came home during the holiday. He is a tall Filipino of standard height but seems to be a quiet man with so many friends. One time, they visited while I was studying in the library, and when I came home, they were fighting with the other gangs living on the campus where I lived.
I was amazed that there were many men in front of the room where I lived, my brother and sister. I said to the neighbor, “Who are they?” Are they fighting? I was so very astonished that I was the cause of their fights. I called them “rivals.” Oh no! I didn’t even know I was the cause of the rivalry. Anyhow, I was so flabbergasted to see the reason.
So, this nautical man’s purpose was to visit, say goodbye to me, and study in another city. He was taking a Nautical course. They usually work in boats in different countries, stopping at every port. I went to the other town where I had just graduated with a Bachelor of Business Administration. He went to Japan as his first post job or depot. He wrote me a letter, but I lost contact with him when I moved places.
Since I was away and didn’t receive his letters, I still hope we meet another someday. I was keeping his love letters. I know he has many vices like smoking, drinking alcohol, and other characteristics that it was hidden from the natural man.
While working in Davao in the office, I worked with the HHBayne Adjuster Company. I told the story about my boss with a furious wife. At that time, I received a call from my sister in our province’s hometown. She told me she met his sister, The sister, and showed him the album. My ex-boyfriend’s sister showed my sister intentionally, as she told me over the phone. In that album, she had shown the different destination ports where his brother’s ship docked in various countries to deliver their shipment with varying types of women who are prostitutes, some are blond, in Norway, India, brunette European, maybe Asian wherever-various of women in every port for leisure. So, Del knew me about being decent and having integrity. She reprimanded or advised my sister to forget her brother because he would not suit me. Having hope and expecting so much about his brother’s behavior and conduct would be disastrous. I was so disgusted to know it, but I was glad it was just passing by without even being serious about it. I lost my contact with this man I hardly knew in the first place. Do you believe in prayer being interceded by our parents, particularly our mother, and anyone Christian could be your friend? I think my mother had prayed for me. You’ll find out later that I have become a blessing to the whole family in the Philippines because of my husband. My mother passed away with the Lord a few years ago, but I am still very grateful she’s a Christian and devoted to God. I’ve been protected when it comes to relationships.
When I think of it now, I was grateful to know it was not my prospective husband, or else there would be circumstances that we regret. There are so many women victims of domestic violence, sexual abuse, servants, and other disasters.
When it happened, maybe, this man would say with a larynx-hoarse voice box, like having a sore throat sound. “Where is my cup of coffee? Where is my alcohol? Did you buy it? Where is my cigarette? When he visited me for the last time in those days, before he left our place to say goodbye. It was the most disgusting to see him vomiting on my lap. How stone drunk that man was with yellowish colored fingertips because of constant use of the nicotine cigarette. There is a moral lesson here when we all experience falling in love. It did fall out of love, and it would have been a big crash if it was not God’s divine intervention behind the scenes. Imagine when this man comes back home for so long that he would hardly be home and see the family! How about the sexual disease that he would be bringing to his wife after engaging those women?
Excerpted from the books of Roselyn Van Dyk entitled: There Are ten Love Languages, The Power of Love, and The Fulfillment of Marriage.The marriage commitment result from looking at marriage through the lens of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. We will work to protect our marriage or relationship whether you are single. defacto or married in the church. For those married couple or any relationship. There is hope that your marriage will work we apply love grows where it is sown. There are available in Amazon.com Kindle store. Please leave reviews and ratings. I really appreciate it. Thank you.
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